Dependentes de amor e sexo: um estudo aproximativo
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2019-12-12
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Oliveira, Paulo José 
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Thomaz, Silvia Maria Tagé
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Desenvolver um trabalho de monografia envolvendo um tema de inexplicável densidade como a dependência de amor e sexo, trazendo à luz do conhecimento a inquestionável relevância do tema e a emergência da promoção de sua discussão, reflexão e debates, não constituiu uma tarefa nada fácil, ficando a incerteza de qual o melhor caminho para construir esse chamamento. Portanto a metodologia aplicada foi a da busca de literatura que dialogasse e promovesse uma aproximação com o tema, num processo de construção de pensamento empírico e cognitivo sobre os textos de referência utilizados. Houve que extrair destes a indicação do melhor caminho a ser percorrido, num ambiente de total anonimato e sigilo, envolvido numa bruma espessa, sem referências específicas, o que indica na própria construção do saber, que os dependentes de amor e sexo, contam com eles próprios, ou em ação conjunta por entre iguais, pressupõe-se ser um número ínfimo de pessoas que cheguem aos grupos de apoio, até por se colocarem numa condição de total invisibilidade por motivos aparentemente evidentes, o silêncio imposto ao sexo e a sexualidade, e que é apontado neste trabalho. O agir dos dependentes de amor e sexo são uma expressão desta condição. Precisam juntar forças sós, seguir abatidos pelos desgastes emocionais intermináveis e também pelos ininterruptos enfrentamentos consigo mesmo e com sua “consciência”. Outro desafio permanente é sensível construção do convívio e das relações sociais que precisam estabelecer, frente a dependência que possuem; faz-se imprescindível estabelecer o controle de suas inquietações, impulsos e rompantes ao máximo. E nesta perspectiva ficarem isolados e sós buscarem meios de atenderem seus chamamentos, sua “autoajuda”, buscarem por si os meios de cuidados e assistências que requerem as suas demandas específicas, sem de modo algum deixar transparecer a natureza de tais. E alguns, contando com a sorte; num ato desesperado, por serem mais articulados e/ou impetuosos, busquem ajuda alheia, com a esperança de encontrarem pessoas sensíveis e abnegadas, que estejam dispostas a dar escuta, e mais, possam e queiram empaticamente estenderem suas mãos, para tentar próximos aos dependentes, encontrar meios para a atenção das situações-problema e demandas apresentadas, por que as soluções, estas até onde esta pesquisa pode alcançar, não as terão.
Developing a monograph work involving an inexplicably dense theme such as the dependence on love and sex, bringing to light the knowledge of the unquestionable relevance of the theme and the emergence of the promotion of its discussion, reflection and debates, was not an easy task. the uncertainty of the best way to build this call. Therefore, the applied methodology was the search for literature that would dialogue and promote an approximation with the theme, in a process of construction of empirical and cognitive thinking about the reference texts used. It was necessary to extract from them the indication of the best way to go, in an environment of total anonymity and secrecy, involved in a thick mist, without specific references, which indicates in the very construction of knowledge, that the dependents of love and sex count on them. themselves, or in joint action by equals, is assumed to be a tiny number of people coming to support groups, even because they are in a condition of total invisibility for seemingly obvious reasons, the silence imposed on sex and sexuality, and which is pointed out in this paper. The action of dependents of love and sex is an expression of this condition. They need to join forces alone, to be beaten down by endless emotional wear and tear, as well as uninterrupted confrontations with themselves and their "conscience." Another permanent challenge is the sensible construction of conviviality and social relations that need to be established, given their dependence; It is essential to establish the control of their concerns, impulses and outbursts to the fullest. And from this perspective, they are isolated and alone seeking ways to answer their calls, their “self-help”, seeking for themselves the means of care and assistance that require their specific demands, without in any way showing the nature of such. And some, counting on luck; in a desperate act, because they are more articulate and / or impetuous, seek help from others, hoping to find sensitive and selfsacrificing people who are willing to listen, and more, can and want to empathically extend their hands to try close to their dependents. , find ways to address the problem situations and demands presented, because the solutions, as far as this research can reach, will not have them.
Developing a monograph work involving an inexplicably dense theme such as the dependence on love and sex, bringing to light the knowledge of the unquestionable relevance of the theme and the emergence of the promotion of its discussion, reflection and debates, was not an easy task. the uncertainty of the best way to build this call. Therefore, the applied methodology was the search for literature that would dialogue and promote an approximation with the theme, in a process of construction of empirical and cognitive thinking about the reference texts used. It was necessary to extract from them the indication of the best way to go, in an environment of total anonymity and secrecy, involved in a thick mist, without specific references, which indicates in the very construction of knowledge, that the dependents of love and sex count on them. themselves, or in joint action by equals, is assumed to be a tiny number of people coming to support groups, even because they are in a condition of total invisibility for seemingly obvious reasons, the silence imposed on sex and sexuality, and which is pointed out in this paper. The action of dependents of love and sex is an expression of this condition. They need to join forces alone, to be beaten down by endless emotional wear and tear, as well as uninterrupted confrontations with themselves and their "conscience." Another permanent challenge is the sensible construction of conviviality and social relations that need to be established, given their dependence; It is essential to establish the control of their concerns, impulses and outbursts to the fullest. And from this perspective, they are isolated and alone seeking ways to answer their calls, their “self-help”, seeking for themselves the means of care and assistance that require their specific demands, without in any way showing the nature of such. And some, counting on luck; in a desperate act, because they are more articulate and / or impetuous, seek help from others, hoping to find sensitive and selfsacrificing people who are willing to listen, and more, can and want to empathically extend their hands to try close to their dependents. , find ways to address the problem situations and demands presented, because the solutions, as far as this research can reach, will not have them.
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OLIVEIRA, Paulo José. Dependentes de amor e sexo: um estudo aproximativo, 2019. 56f. Trabalho de conclusão de curso (Graduação em Serviço Social) - Instituto de Saúde e Sociedade, Universidade Federal de São Paulo, Santos, 2019.